Stanfield VideoModeling^® / Date Smart

DateSmart-1: Abstinence and the Art of Saying “No”

Techniques to Support the Choice of Abstinence
DateSmart-1 uses a realistic approach to teach students how to support the choice for abstinence. Each program uses NotSmart/LifeSmart examples to focus on issues every student must address: how to set appropriate boundaries; how not to be emotionally manipulated; how to avoid people with “one-track” minds; what social situations to avoid; how to protect their personal space and how to use “I’ll PASS,” a new way to say “No” that fosters partner support; how to learn that physical intimacy and love are not the same; and much more.

Part 1: The Art of Saying :No”: Your students will learn how to assertively, but not hurtfully, counter common
seduction techniques. The unique “I’ll P.A.S.S.” refusal model is also introduced.  20 mins

Part 2: How to Practice Abstinence: Students will learn that the best way to support a decision for abstinence is to avoid being in situations where that decision could be seriously tested. Abstinence conflicts and choices are clearly illustrated, along with a second illustration of the delivery of the “I’ll P.A.S.S.” refusal model.  37 mins

Part 3: How to Protect Boundaries: Students will learn the importance of establishing and maintaining appropriate intimacy boundaries around touch, conversation, and physical settings.  32 mins

DateSmart-1: $299
DVD Order No. 1065.123D
VHS Order No. 1065.123V

Includes:
· 2 DVDs or 3 VHS tapes featuring 30 lessons
· Comprehensive teacher’s guide

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DateSmart-2: Avoiding Trouble and Listening for “No”

How to Date Responsibly and Avoid Trouble
DateSmart-2 teaches students how to control their emotions and avoid impulsive reactions to intimate situations. Through humorous NotSmart examples, students learn what actions can lead to trouble. The program teaches men not to date minors and how to refrain from manipulative actions that harm women. Women learn how to recognize trouble and how to avoid behavior that can send unintentional, provocative signals. Common misconceptions about the opposite gender are addressed.

Part 4: How Girls Can Avoid Getting Into Trouble: Your female students will see what they can do to avoid the possibility of exploitation. Note: It’s never a girl’s fault if she is victimized; however, women can take precautions by not sending mixed or confusing messages.  45 mins
Part 5: How Guys Can Avoid Getting Into Trouble: Your male students will learn to avoid the most common ways guys get into trouble, from dating a minor to getting a girl pregnant. They’ll also learn about how hard the law can be with men who don’t listen to “No.”  33 mins
Part 6: Understanding the Opposite Gender: One of the most common reasons guys get into trouble with girls is that they believe girls think the same way about intimate human realtionships as they do. In this show, students will learn that women and men really do think differently!  22 mins

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